Jan 31 2009
Better Mental Health Services Needed For Our Soldier Coming Home
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Forty-one Marines committed suicide last year; this is up from 33 in 2007 and is just about half of the 128 soldiers whose deaths have been ruled suicide. In 2007, there were 115 confirmed suicides among soldiers and the totals have been slowly increasing since 2005 when there were a total of 87 suicides confirmed.
These figures for 2008, indicates that out of 100,000 soldiers, approximately 20 will take their own life. Not only that but they are coming back with psychological problems, physical injuries and life long memories to carry with them for as long as they are on this earth.
If they entered the service at age 18 and serve four to six years, that puts them at 22 to 26 years old and from that age, the assumption is they still have a lot of life to live. Instead of living they are burden with the experiences brought on by war.
These statistics are alarming. These young kids are being sent, multiple times in some cases, to a war zone, they watch friends die or get injured, become injured themselves and they see the aftermath of the destruction they have created and then are expected to come back to “civilization” and blend in and leave the memories and the violence behind.
Does this increase in suicides among military personnel indicate that leaving those memories behind is not as easy as saying the words.
There was a time when boys were more or less raised to believe that serving your country was honorable and in fact was a requirement. A warrior was “manly” but phraseology in the world has changed and peace is more frequently spoken of, yet, this peace never comes and the mixed signals begin to wear on the consciousness of these brave kids, once the war is over or they are away from the battle.
How long do we ask our children to kill for our selfishness, our greed and our inability to get along as people joined by what should be a common bond - the bond of life, the bond of human beings?
I view war as a violent contradiction of why we are here on earth and the sooner we understand the importance of acceptance, even if we disagree, the sooner we will be able to achieve peace and stop the need to send our young into war zones which strip them physically, psychologically, spiritually and morally, changing who they are and what they can be.
Is the expectation too high for these children to “bounce back” after such an extraordinary experience such as war and death? Do they view themselves as weak if they experience post traumatic stress or any other psychological dysfunction after being in a war zone? Does this inhibit them from seeking the necessary help they need to become, once again, a functioning part of “civilization” or do we just not have the proper resources available to them.
Whatever the reason, support is the answer. The fact is our children are choosing to take their own lives and this is something that needs to be effectively dealt with to prevent such tragedies from happening.
And that’s the way I see it!!
